A few weeks ago a friend from blogland contacted me and said she was headed through my part of the world. And she wanted to get together.
And like meet. In person.
I've never had the opportunity to meet a bloggie friend in real life. Well, I did meet
Wesley a few years ago but that was just by chance. I didn't have to
worry, er uh . . . plan in advance for it. I remember thinking it was extraordinary to meet a total and complete stranger and they not be a total and complete stranger.
Well, Saturday was the day that
Dee and her husband planned to drive to my house. And I spent much of the week prior to and the morning of kind of fretting. A woman was coming to my house that only knew me through my blog and the
Old Red Barn Co. Quilt Along group on Flickr. What if the real life version of me was a disappointment to her?
What if she noticed the baseboards were missing in the hallway?
What if she saw the bleak pile of dead ladybugs surrounding the entire perimeter of my house? (Sheesh. Do you guys get these things trying to enter your house in the fall by the thousands?)
What if the endless barking of my dogs bugged her?
What if she noticed how badly my hair needs cut?
Or that my hair was still wet because I had only showered moments before she arrived? Due mainly in part to the fact that I was scrubbing and vacuuming and tidying as fast as I could.
Or what if my kids let it slip that I threatened to not take them trick-or-treating unless they dusted for me? (I jest. Surely I jest. I mean, cause what kind of mother would threaten such a thing!)
And what if she and her husband were offended that I take them to the local bakery for lunch rather than prepare some gourmet concoction?
Oh dear. She was no in my driveway. MY DRIVEWAY!! There was no turning back now.
And after she was here for only moments I wondered what I ever fretted for in the first place. After all, this was Dee and I kinda sorta already "knew" Dee. And she was kind, thoughtful (she made us a beautiful table runner and coasters), funny, interesting, and totally down to earth. What's more is she was also interested in what I had to say. And what the girls had to say too. And had Razor been here he would have loved her every bit as much as I did and would have totally hit it off with her husband.
It's kind of crazy how I worried. Having Dee in my home was like inviting an old dear friend over for the day. After she left I found myself thinking how wonderful it would have been had she brought her sewing machine along too!
-dana